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Unseen Struggles, Untapped Potential: The Role of Social Workers in Schools

  • Writer: agingtapestry
    agingtapestry
  • Aug 26, 2025
  • 5 min read

Updated: Aug 26, 2025



Do you think one’s environment influences their behavior, whether positively or negatively?


For me, the answer is yes. I was raised in an environment where fighting and quarreling were the norm; there were no healthy ways to resolve conflict.


So how did that affect me? Whenever there was a misunderstanding, I would lash out, say mean things, and not care how my words made someone feel, as long as I got my point across. Forgiveness or grace wasn’t something I knew. No one apologized; everyone just carried on like normal.  That was life for me.


However, this isn’t my current reality because I have experienced significant growth. I am thankful to God, therapy and people who extended grace, helping me navigate what wasn’t a personality trait but a learned behavior. Even the failed friendships taught me lessons, too.


Now, you can imagine, I was always in trouble for my mouth, and it affected my friendships. I was labeled the “rude” or “troubled” child. Years later, I realized that if teachers had dug deeper into my behavior, they might have seen the hidden layers and helped me earlier. I’ve concluded that because I was doing well academically, my behavior was overlooked.


Over time, I realized that behaviors are often mislabeled. When a child is repeatedly called “troubled,” “problematic,” or “a bad kid,” those labels begin to stick. They start to see themselves through the lens of those labels, internalizing them as truths.


What was meant to describe behavior becomes a definition of identity. Labels are not meant to name individuals; they are meant to provide a framework for understanding behaviors and finding solutions, not to label a child for life. When we focus only on labels, we overlook the root causes and the behaviors themselves. This mislabeling can create self-fulfilling prophecies, where children begin to act in ways that match the negative expectations placed upon them, further limiting their potential.


It’s important to note that this is not about blaming teachers. Many educators themselves may be dealing with personal challenges, dysfunctional home environments, or unaddressed trauma. The question is:  Are they trained to navigate mental health issues, recognize trauma, or intervene in crises? Often, the answer is no. Therefore, they may not have the tools or training to support students beyond academics.


I remember during COVID, there were a few student suicides at my University in Taiwan. Professors were asked to check in with students about their mental state, to engage with us, and see how we were coping. Many were unsure how to respond. Taiwanese professors, for example, said, “We were never taught or cultured to express our emotions, so how can we do that now?"


This highlighted a systemic gap. It is unrealistic to expect educators to support students emotionally without providing them with the proper training or resources. This is why school social workers are essential. They are trained to recognize trauma, provide support, and guide both students and educators in navigating these complex emotional situations. In that way, teachers can focus on teaching, while social workers handle the emotional and social development that is just as critical for a child’s success.


Academic success alone doesn’t mean a child is thriving emotionally or socially. Many students enter secondary school, carrying unresolved trauma or struggles with difficult home environments. I know of children who were being touched inappropriately by family or friends. Others weren’t properly supervised because their parents worked long hours in the hotel industry. Some had home problems, financial struggles, or other challenges. They didn’t tell the teacher but confided quietly with peers. They underperformed in school, were usually absent, involved in conflict, and struggled silently.


There were so many issues. School social workers can help nip problems in the bud before they escalate, providing early support before maladaptive coping mechanisms take root or worsen.


Now, imagine the pain these children carried into secondary school. They’ve already become accustomed to keeping their struggles to themselves, so it’s often a “whatever” mindset. Then comes peer pressure, the search for identity, and the challenge of figuring out who they are. Some may turn to alcohol, cigarettes, marijuana, early sexual activity, excessive partying, or even joining gangs. These behaviors are often attempts to numb the pain, cope, and survive. According to Erik Erikson (1950), a developmental psychologist, ages 12–18 are characterized by identity versus role confusion, which is a crucial period when children are beginning to define themselves as individuals.


Those behaviors they never dealt with; the maladaptive coping mechanisms, the dysfunctional ways of handling pain; start to become part of who they believe they are. It becomes tangled up with their identity: “This is me. This is who I am.” And without proper support, these patterns can carry into adulthood, affecting relationships, decision-making, and how they see their worth.


So, what should we do? We need to provide services from early, aiming to be PROACTIVE, rather than reactive. I've learnt that change doesn’t have to be radical. Incremental changes over time also make real impact. If we can save one child, in doing so, we save a generation because small interventions create ripple effects that extend far beyond a single life.


This is especially relevant in Saint Lucia, where young men are killing each other and young girls and grown women are fighting in the streets. For example, Saint Lucia has experienced a rising trend in violent crime, with 49 homicides already recorded in 2025. Between 2014 and early 2025, 334 young people under 35 were murdered, of whom 60% were male and only 4% were female.


We can deduce that their conflict resolution skills are poor, and schools are often the first place these behaviors are observed. While guidance counselors primarily focus on career guidance and are limited in conducting home visits, school social workers can fill this gap by providing both preventative and responsive support to children and their family.


During my internships at Human Services and New Beginnings Transit Home in St. Lucia, I had the opportunity to accompany my supervisors; both social workers, on school visits to check on their clients. It was not only an eye-opening experience but also one that deepened my appreciation for the role social workers play in supporting children. At the same time, I couldn’t ignore the reality that they were severely understaffed. This made me realize how crucial it is to have more social workers assigned across the different districts, so that every child and family can receive the timely support they need.


Across the Caribbean, Trinidad and Tobago provides a working model. Their Ministry of Education has a Student Support Services Division (SSSD) that includes guidance counselors, school social workers, special education staff, and developmental assessment units. School social workers address child neglect and abuse, provide mental health support, help with teenage pregnancy, chronic absenteeism, grief and loss, and teach resilience skills. They also train parents, teachers, and school staff on supporting children holistically.


If Saint Lucia wants to reduce youth violence, support mental health, and help children reach their potential, we need school social workers. They can spot risks early, intervene before problems escalate, and equip students with the social and emotional skills to thrive.


Mental health matters. Trauma matters. Children deserve to be seen and supported. Healing and guidance should not be a privilege; they should be a right. By investing in school social workers, Saint Lucia can empower its youth to reach their full potential and break cycles of dysfunction before they spiral out of control.

 

Further Reading:

  1. Erikson's Stages of Development


  1. BATCE Guidance Counselling and School Social Work

    https://batce.edu.tt/guidance-and-social-work/


  1. Second Marchand Shooting Victim Dies Weeks After Hospital Wedding

    unitedpacstlucia.com/second-marchand-shooting-victim-dies/


4 Comments


Lisa Jn Baptiste
Lisa Jn Baptiste
Aug 28, 2025

Wow this is good , I have always thought of the way kids behave is because of their environment at home and what they constantly hear being said to me them about who they are I try my best to instill positive words into kids and never joke with them about being what they are not kids are like songs they absorb what’s around them and believe what they are told after a period of time. Even us as adults negative words can impact us and have us believing the lie. The tongue is a very powerful tool we should use it wisely.

Keep it up Ny

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agingtapestry
agingtapestry
Sep 08, 2025
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Hey Lisa, thanks so much for your feedback. You’re right, words have the power to destroy, devalue or empower. It’s up to us to decide how we use them.

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Damara Dawson
Damara Dawson
Aug 27, 2025

a well written and very relevant message that needs attention now more than ever. it is not too late to create the change we need to see! thank you for starting the shift ny!

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agingtapestry
agingtapestry
Sep 08, 2025
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You welcome Damara.

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